Revisiting Everyday Caring Cookies – Refrigeration Addressed

I recently shared the best cookie recipe as divinely easy and delicious. I want to revisit this recipe as I have been working to make cooking smaller batches easier as we all want to be liberated from anything that becomes a chore.

I make these cookies using Bill Granger’s recipe from his Everyday cookbook. These oatmeal and raisin/ choc chip cookies are so delicious and versatile – I bake a small quantity and pop the remaining uncooked dough into a Ziplock bag in the fridge so later in the week we can enjoy another small batch of fresh-baked cookies that are warm and fresh!

The refrigerated dough in the ziplock bag needs 20 mins on the counter to soften before I pull off chunks and form them into cookie shapes on the baking tray. It is not ideal to repeatedly return the unused portion of the dough to the fridge so I have been experimenting!

Experiment One. I rolled the dough into a sausage shape, wrapped it in clingfilm, before refrigeration so that, at a later date, I could cut cookies from the end without warming the dough up. The cookies tasted the same but cutting the dough across the oats looked unappetizing.

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Experiment Two. Use several little Ziplocks with the uncooked dough divided into smaller quantities,  just enough in each individual bag for a modest batch. This ensures cookie mixture never has to return to the fridge. This method wins as cookies remain aesthetically appealing and quantities are stored in sufficient amounts for a few delicious cookies without compromising all of the uncooked dough. I have neat little cookie packages in the fridge ready to go in 20 mins.

Recipe here

photo 3 (24)Disclaimer : No animals were involved during our experimentation, we ate all the cookies ourselves!

Volunteer Cookie Critic

Beastie – Can’t understand portion control or that cookies are not dog food.

 

Autumn jam treat. A healthy recipe for SCI diet and easy for carers.

I am time poor but jams, pickles and chutneys are easy and fairly quick to cook. There are nutritional benefits to home cooked preserves and the sense of achievement encourages me every time I pass in-season produce. I love healthy foods in the fridge and pantry and having a variety of preserves is advantageous as a carer as I’m always prepared!

Originally food was preserved so it could be kept for year round consumption. Nowadays preserving seasonal foods at home can be cheaper than shop bought products especially if you grow your own ingredients. Homemade jams, pickles and chutneys are healthier with no added preservatives. I enjoy giving my filled jars as gifts as a real sense of my time and energy in the present. My children love being involved too, the seasonal production of apple chutney is a highlight in our kitchen.

I have a well-thumbed, sticky home preserves cook book, published in 1979, the recipes are just as delicious today. With experience I add less sugar as my taste buds like sharp marmalade, my apple chutney can vary depending on the raisins purchased. That’s why cooking appeals to me, I can make a recipe my own with a tweak.

The recipe below is delicious using Autumn plums. I didn’t boil mine too rapidly so less jam-like and more very thick stewed fruit, absolutely divine on breakfast yogurt, perfect at lunch on whole grain bread and cheese.  Add a fruity dollop into rice pudding or semolina dessert. Ideal on scones and with jam this good no one needs cream.

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Fruit Jam

Preparation -15min

Cooking – 40min

Ingredients

2 kg stoned fruit, quartered and stones removed
250 ml (1 cup) water
2 tbsp lemon juice
½ kg caster sugar

Instructions

Place fruit, water and lemon juice in a large heavy-based saucepan on medium heat. Bring to the boil and cook for 20 minutes, or until fruit is soft.

Meanwhile, warm sugar either by placing sugar in a heatproof bowl in the oven, or in the microwave.

Add the sugar to the stewed fruit, and stir well until sugar dissolves.
Increase heat and cook, stirring often, for 15–20 minutes.

To check if jam has reached setting point, place 1 teaspoon of mixture onto a chilled plate. Tip the plate; if the jam runs, cook for a further 5 minutes, then try again.

Pour into sterilised jars while still hot.
Makes 2–3 litres.

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How I cope as a worried carer…..I ‘slam dunk’ worry!

As a carer I naturally worry, there are many issues that need my attention and I can even imagine I’m indispensable. How can I readjust my thoughts so that I am calm, focused on the important stuff and open to spontaneous worry-free adventures.

Firstly I need to recognize that my thoughts are just my thoughts. I can over analyze my situation resulting in warped conclusions. I can fall victim to my fictitious thinking, allowing me to formulate imagined untruths. I simply have to ask myself “Is what I think a known truth?” I take time to reflect on my thoughts and I often realise my cumulative musings stack up to nothing, I am just making myself anxious. If I allow worries to build into anxiety I need to press my reset button to readjust my thinking, restore my inner calm and revive my peaceful, positive psyche.

Andrea F. Pollard, Psy.D. Published an article addressing this issue. The article titled What, You Worry? It gives five answers that deflate a worry bubble and stop it becoming a hot air balloon rising out of control. I took the liberty of rewriting the five points for carers.

Don’t believe everything you think.

As a carer I can over think, over organize, over orchestrate plans far ahead in the future. I have become aware that I can spend time and energy planning for events that may never happen. I have to take a deep breath and distance myself from my thoughts in order to reveal with clarity if I am over thinking a real tangible, plausible event. If I focus on actual future appointments I stop myself falling into the “what if ” thinking that is futile. No point in worrying about stuff that may never happen.

Desensitize Yourself

I worry about my children, about their health and well-being especially after Emily’s accident. It could lead me to be unrealistically controlling as I wrap everyone I love in cotton wool, smoother their natural inquisitive enthusiasm for adventure and life experiences. I could overlay my anxieties on those around me but I don’t because I understand it’s an irrational thought. If I am really overwhelmed with anxious thoughts about a scenario I take it to its furthest point, I think through to the worst scenario, would it be a catastrophe, a complete disaster?  I don’t spend time agonizing over stuff that really wouldn’t be considered the end of the world, it hasn’t happened so why worry?

Learn From Your Anxiety

I understand my process of learning from my anxiety; I write down my worries, my fears. I ask myself why  am so worried about these things and by putting my thoughts in script and pondering on them in my own handwriting on the table in-front of me it allows a detachment that aids reflection and distance. It initiates the question “Why is this thought so worrying?” Detached analysis of my inner demons stops them multiplying and negatively influencing my thinking, allowing me to halt the thought, stop the circular, spirally worry, refocus on the truth of the circumstance or issue. Andrea F. Pollard refers to her book A Unified Theory of Happiness when addressing this point.

Become Mindful

The human brain remembers the negative and physical threats because in our evolutionary history it was important for survival. This bias has led to our tendency to worry. I have to train myself to be mindful, to be present, to see, hear, taste, smell and experience what is in-front of me now, today. I make an effort to be in the present as often as I can be during my busy day, the advantage to my mental health is enormous. I become aware that each day offers an abundance of opportunity,  little things can make a great day.

“The worried mind is accustomed to seeing only the negative , ignoring the rest of life which is actually an awe-inspiring spectacle of beauty, abundance, and boundless opportunity.” says Andrea F. Polard 

Question Your Entire Value System

Most everyday carers have experienced some trauma or life changing event to accept the role, we could spend the rest of our lives worried and worrying. This negative thinking is dire and throws me into an unhappy abyss. It is at this point I have to ask myself “what is the point of my worrying?” ” Where am I going and what am I doing with all this worry?” The shard of light that illuminates my way forward shows me that life is a spectacular gift. Andrea F. Polard writes “When we realise how great a gift, we may just relax into this reality and celebrate wherever possible”  If I miss life, I’ve missed all the opportunities in front of me! Opportunities to be happy and enjoy the day.

Worry shouldn’t dominate or inhibit our amazing lives so I write my anxieties and worries down, read them, acknowledge them, understand their origin then scrunch the paper into a ball and throw it into the bin. Slam dunk worry, let’s get on with living life!

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Budgie Bolt for Bonnie to Raise Awareness and Funds for Youngcare

Bonnie often pops in to see Emily as they are great friends, we know her car as a 6 metre surf ski is perched on the roof rack. She is a welcome visitor and appreciates our warm home-baked cookies with English Breakfast tea!

Imagine our heartfelt connection as Bonnie undertakes the 6km Budgie Bolt on Friday 28th March. “The GIO Youngcare Budgie Bolt is a daring race (in barely-there budgies) which aims to increase community awareness about the lack of choice in care and housing options available for young Aussies with high care needs.”

Youngcare “was established in 2005 following the inspirational story of one woman’s battle to find relevant and dignified care. Currently more than 7,500 young Australians (under the age of 65) with full-time care needs are living in aged care simply because there are few alternatives (National Disability Agreement 2010). There are also 700,000 more young Australians being cared for at home by family and friends, often with limited support (Australian Institute of Health & Welfare 2007).

All young people deserve to live young lives. Youngcare is committed to raising awareness of the issue across the nation so that we can drive change and create real choices for young Australians and their families.

No matter how uncomfortable our Budgie Bolters feel, it’s not as uncomfortable as being a young person in aged care.”

For more information please visit www.youngcare.com.au    http://www.budgiebolt.com.au

See The Mosman Daily article – Budgie Bolt for Bonnie, Raising Awareness and Funds for Youngcare

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We will be at the 4pm start / finish in Tumbalong Park, Darling Harbour to boost Bonnie on her way. We will have a cookie in our picnic for her!

Spinal Cord Injury Australia – Walk On Program Sydney

We visit SCIA Walk On Program regularly as Emily finds their physio, exercise regime very beneficial. Her physical exertion reduces her spasms, increases her well-being, stretch her hip flexors as she’s manipulated into the standing frame; correcting her stance and rehabilitates her out of her wheelchair. Her program encourages her with appropriate goals and strength training. It is a positive environment with multiple levels of gain; all her visits are instructional, motivational, supportive and social.

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The Walk On Program is an excellent facility which is under the umbrella of Spinal Cord Injury Australia (SCIA). On SCIA’s website the program is introduced – ” Walk On is an individually designed intensive activity based rehabilitation program to assist a person with a spinal cord injury to improve and maximize their functional ability and lead a more independent life. The program involves intense, dynamic, weight-bearing exercises all performed out of the wheelchair one-on-one with a qualified Exercise Physiologist or Physiotherapist.’ 

Emily has several rehabilitation goals including being able to transfer (chair to bed, chair to car) with a slide board and re-position herself. Some goals have been paused while she recovers from the deltoid tendon to tricep surgery. The surgery has resulted in a working tricep but the immobility needed for this surgical success has impacted on Emily’s upper body strength. Three months after the surgery Emily is back working hard to recover her stamina and fitness. The program has reset her goals appropriately with a revised exercise routine.

Being involved with this program Emily has experienced improvement in her core strength as she sits with ease. Her walking frame use, both at home and at Walk On, has established that she has retained her hip reflexes, which initiate stepping forward, this is a useful reflex for the future when bionics come into play. Every reflex, sensory gain and all muscle strengthening is welcomed. Physical fitness is an essential component of health and well-being coupled with a healthy diet and lifestyle, the Walk On Program assists Emily to consolidate her positive progress and motivates her to improve realistically.

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Another successful session completed with such a motivated team of young professionals. It is no wonder that Emily soaks up their energy and enjoys the lively banter between staff and clients. Emily recently received the SCIA Walk On Program Fashionista Award because she wore heels to work out, actually a wardrobe error that morning but she is aiming to hold on tight to this accolade with her manicured hands and coordinated nail polish!!

 

World Social Work Day 2014 – A synopsis of our story after a SCI in our family.

On February 1st 2012 Emily fell while snowboarding in Vermont, she broke her C5 and the spinal cord injury resulted in her quadriplegia.

Our initial care was in U.S.A. The American Social Worker was knowledgeable and experienced. The medical repatriation was co-ordinated by this professional and negotiated with compassion and sensitivity.

At Royal North Shore Hospital (RNSH) we were promptly introduced to an Intensive Care Unit (ICU) Social Worker who started enlightening us on support services and how to access pertinent information. I remember her kindness, her professionalism and her comprehension of our ignorance and need. There were forms which I signed as it was beyond me to know what needed to be done with no perception of Emily’s new requirements. The Social Worker’s guidance was profoundly welcome.

From ICU we were transferred into the spinal unit, where we were assigned a new Social Worker whose competence assured me that we were best off being guided at this point and that being in control of every aspect of SCI was unrealistic. Emily was fully informed so never waived her rights, she just gave up the manual task of form filling which was appropriate to relinquish.

Emily’s stay at Royal Rehab was unusual because she was with several young females. This was the foundation for our recovery as we connected with them and their parents. It was within this intimate parental group I undertook the Strength 2 Strength program, a five week program facilitated by Social Workers aimed at building resilience among family members affected by brain or spinal cord injury. This group program created connections that remain strong, positive and supportive.

The Royal Rehab Social Workers had a longer period of time to work alongside us as a family, to get to know our situations and advise accordingly. Essentially Royal Rehab assisted us as we prepared to return home and empowered us with information helping to ease our journey towards Emily’s independence. In Royal Rehab we were initially denied a care package. Our Social Worker suggested I approach our local MP. I sent the letter which quickly had a positive reply.

The Spinal Outreach Service (SOS) was paramount as we returned home. Their knowledge of community resources introduced us to many services. We could’ve missed out through ignorance but learnt we have to ask and utilise available area provisions. When Emily returned home the SOS Social Worker initiated my approach to our local council to relay a grass verge and a short time later a concrete path was laid with curb cuts.

Establishing myself as an everyday carer I documented my expanding experience and collated any relevant information. It became obvious to share my researched data and facts with others. I also observed changes to my lifestyle; social isolation and the constant challenge to remain healthy in mind and body. I designed this blog to interact with others using social media that can be accessed anytime, anyplace by all involved in caring, coping and disability. I find the process of writing therapeutic and I hope that the contents of my blog resonates with others.

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Is pumpkin a SCI friend?

As a carer I feel responsible for the household pantry and meal plan. I wanted to blog some delicious pumpkin recipes as so versatile but re-evaluated when I realised pumpkin has a high sugar content. I needed to compare pumpkin to other vegetables / carbohydrate choices to give a fair review so I looked at: Penne pasta, brown rice, sweet potato,  boiled potatoes, multigrain bread and pumpkin. I have listed them in order of their calories as penne pasta has the most with 220 calories in 1 cup of cooked pasta. Pumpkin came out best with 26 calories in 100g.

Brown rice ranked highest for total carbohydrates with 44.42g in 1 cup compared to penne pasta 42.95g per cup, sweet potato 41.42g per cup,  multigrain bread 12.06g per slice and pumpkin came out best with  6.5g in 100g. I am comparing 1 serve size.

I then compared sugar content; sweet potato rests easily at the top with 16.88g per cup cementing it’s name, next was multigrain bread with 2.61g sugar per slice and pumpkin has 1.36g per 100g, penne pasta had 0.78g sugar per cup with brown rice 0.68g per cup and potatoes 0.66g per half cup.

About now I became slightly confused as should I prioritize carbohydrate content or fats or protein in the food? There are so many factors to consider when I make a food choice, including vitamins, calcium and  iron contents. Sweet potatoes win the vitamin A content with 769% per cup with 65% vitamin C. Pumpkin comes in second with 148% vitamin A and 15% vitamin C. If you eliminate sweet potato because of its high sugar content then pumpkin has a strong nutritional position.

I could go on and compare these foods regarding their protein or their fat content especially their saturated fats (pumpkin  has 3% fat and 8% protein which is mid range within my food comparison ) but I decided to look at the question from a different angle to see if it showed me the statistical analysis more clearly. I just wanted to know if pumpkin is good for the family?

I read Mala Srivastava’s article in SFGate – Healthy Eating – listing good carbs and bad carbs and then Erin Coleman’s article in the same publication called Good carb foods V bad carb foods. It was becoming clear that I may not be asking the right question?

Our bodies all need carbohydrates to function well. There are two types of carbohydrates: complex and simple. Complex carbs take a longer time to be digested into glucose, foods packed with complex carbs and fibre are referred to as good carbs. Simple carbs have higher amounts of sugar or added sugar so white bread with added sugar would be a bad carb.

So how do I analyse my family’s intake of good carbs and bad cards?  Eating too many processed foods with added sugar or bad carbs, as we have now established, can increase the risk of heart disease and contribute to diabetes and an increase in weight. Examples of bad cards are white bread, regular pasta, white rice, sugary drinks?

The straight forward conclusion is that we should only be eating good carbs. These carbs are minimally processed, packed with nutrients including fibre; examples are grains, fruits, vegetables and legumes. Ah – this is a clearer way to consider food choices. I read on about the daily amounts recommended by World Health Organization – carbs should make up 45 -65 % of the total daily calorie intake. There in that sentence all is lost again as how does the average carer know if carbs make up 45-65% of their daily family meal plan? An easier way to consider this is – if you eat 2000 calories a day (a female’s allowance), sugar intake must be limited to under 50g per day. Good carbs are generally packed with fibre, women are recommended to eat 25g of fibre and men 38g fibre a day, I’d need a calculator around Woolworth’s. Lost again?

How can I make this comparison and analysis simple?  I am going to use one measurement and combine foods into groupings…….eat whole grain foods such as  brown rice, whole grain pasta, beans, whole oats and whole wheat breads. These choices are packed with fibre , vitamins and minerals. These foods don’t cause peaks in blood glucose levels so maintain stable blood sugars decreasing the risk of type 2 diabetes. Harvard School of Public Health suggests eating whole wheat  or whole oats for breakfast, whole grain breads for lunch and brown rice for dinner, for serving size see packaging. Eat 2 cups of fruits and 2.5 cups vegetables daily such as beans , peas and lentils.

Steer away from refined grains, sweets and biscuits, pizza crusts, pretzels, hamburger buns and bagels, cakes, pancakes and pastries as they are generally stripped of vitamins and high in added sugar. These choices are high calorie foods which contribute to weight gain and can lead to development of diabetes.

I still haven’t answered my question – is pumpkin is a good food choice?

My research had thrown superfoods into the forum, what is a superfood and is pumpkin a superfood? The term superfood as defined by Wikipedia “is a food that is considered to be beneficial to your health and that may help some medical conditions.” Cancer Research UK says “superfood as a term is really just a marketing tool, with little scientific basis to it” Since July 2007 the marketing of products as superfoods is prohibited in the European Union unless accompanied by a scientific medical claim supported by credible scientific research. The Sydney Morning Herald listed Top 10 Superfoods, in 2009, as Acai, natural yogurt, broccoli, lentils, sweet potatoes,blueberries, wild salmon, Goji berries, kale, barley. Although  I realise that superfoods could be all hype there is some credibility in the fact that all the superfoods mentioned above are natural, unrefined, rich in fibre, vitamins and minerals.  I looked at the selection and I feel these ‘super’ options fall into basic good food choices. Still no mention of pumpkin.

Finally I thought I would investigate the medical approach to food choices and found some more interesting information. Let me summarize by posting the National Heart, Lung and Blood Institute 1,200 eating plan ; 

Breakfast Energy
(Kcal)
Fat
(GM)
%Fat Exchange for:
Whole-wheat bread,
1 med. slice
70 1.2 15 (1 Bread/Starch)
   Jelly, regular, 2 tsp 30 0 0 (½ Fruit)
Cereal, shredded wheat,
½ C
104 1 4 (1 Bread/Starch)
   Milk, 1%, 1 C 102 3 23 (1 Milk)
Orange juice, ¾ C 78 0 0 (1½ Fruit)
Coffee, regular, 1 C 5 0 0 (Free)
Breakfast Total 389 5.2 10  
Lunch Energy
(Kcal)
Fat
(GM)
%Fat Exchange for:
Roast beef sandwich        
   Whole-wheat bread,
2 med. slices
139 2.4 15 (2 Bread/Starch)
   Lean roast beef,
unseasoned, 2 oz
60 1.5 23 (2 Lean Protein)
   Lettuce, 1 leaf 1 0 0  
   Tomato, 3 med. slices 10 0 0 (1 Vegetable)
   Mayonnaise, low-calorie,
1 tsp
15 1.7 96 (13 Fat)
Apple, 1 med. 80 0 0 (1 Fruit)
Water, 1 C 0 0 0 (Free)
Lunch Total 305 56 16  
Dinner Energy
(Kcal)
Fat
(GM)
%Fat Exchange for:
Salmon, 2 oz edible 103 5 40 (2 Lean Protein)
   Vegetable oil, 1½ tsp 60 7 100 (1½ Fat)
Baked potato, ¾ med. 100 0 0 (1 Bread/Starch)
   Margarine, 1 tsp 34 4 100 (1 Fat)
Green beans, seasoned
with margarine, ½ C
52 2 4 (1 Vegetable)
(½ Fat)
Carrots, seasoned 35 2 0 (1 Vegetable)
White dinner roll, 1 small 70 2 26 (1 Bread/Starch)
Iced tea, unsweetened, 1 C 0 0 0 (Free)
Water, 2 C 0 0 0 (Free)
Dinner Total 454 20 39  

Snack Energy
(Kcal)
Fat
(GM)
%Fat Exchange for:
Popcorn, 2½ C 69 0 0 (1 Bread/Starch)
   Margarine, ¾ tsp 30 3 100 (¾ Fat)
         
Grand Total 1,247 34–36 24–26  
I looked at the above plan and see a substantial breakfast to start the day, a balanced lunch with a tasty main meal. It really is that simple. Snack wisely with an apple or a handful of almonds.
 
I investigated Sports and Spokes – The magazine for Wheelchair Sports and Recreation. Kylie James and Joanne Smith just published an article – Thermogenic foods can boost your metabolism and help combat fat. Theirs is an interesting concept and I would like to review their book Eat Well Live Well with SCI and Other Neurological conditions. Do they mention pumpkin?
 
I visited  www.wheelstrong.com   and found in their archives an article  – Welcome to wheelchair life – Here’s what you should eat. Full article here. Their list includes; protein, Vitamin E, Vitamin D, Vitamin C, Vitamin A and Iron. Finally I see pumpkin on the menu, with 148% Vitamin A, 15% Vitamin C, Calcium 2% and Iron 4% with no cholesterol, 0.1g fat and 1mg sodium per serve, pumpkin can be forgiven the 1.36g sugar as I know I have 50g of sugar allowed per day as discussed earlier.
 
Now that I have justified pumpkin as a healthy, fibre rich, beneficial choice; let me explain my love of this vegetable. I can cut it up and roast half while reserving the uncooked quantity of diced flesh for another day. It is versatile in cous cous salads and can be added to casseroles and curry, it makes good soup and can be grated into bolognese sauce for added fibre. It is an excellent choice to have in the fridge as it can be quickly roasted, grated, mashed or liquidated into soup for an evening meal when carers are time poor. I always refrigerate some roasted pumpkin to throw into a beetroot, feta and spinach salad – fresh and perfect with balsamic dressing!
 
In conclusion I acknowledge that I can’t trawl through websites and analyse all foods before I recommend them as delicious for inclusion into the 1200 – 1500 calorie diet for SCI wheelchair users. I have to conclude that my research, copious reading and various highlighting of multiple data in my comparison deliberations has led me to strongly believe –  eat fresh food, cooked simply, eat well but consider portion control/ serve sizes and eat everything in moderation.
 
I  recommend reading appropriate literature that has taken the hard work out of SCI diet. Keep a close eye on Sport and Spokes and http://www.wheelstrong.com #Wheelstrong as no need to reinvent the wheel.
 
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Yummy!

You’re amazing, just the way you are – Bruno Mars

Listening to Bruno Mars on Saturday evening on his Moonshine Jungle Tour at The Sydney Entertainment Centre was incredible. He is so talented but also his message clearly resonated with the audience, we all sang along best we could!

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Listen here to the official version

I’ve butchered Bruno’s lyrics below but wanted to capture his message succinctly; if perfect is what we are searching for, why can’t we see, we are amazing just the way we are………

When I compliment her she won’t believe me
And it’s so, it’s so
Sad to think that she don’t see what I see
But every time she asks me, “Do I look okay?”
I say,

When I see your face (face, face…)
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are)
And when you smile (smile, smile…)
The whole world stops and stares for a while
‘Cause, girl, you’re amazing (amazing)
Just the way you are (are).
I’d never ask you to change
If perfect’s what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same
So don’t even bother asking if you look okay
You know I’ll say,

you’re amazing (amazing)
just the way you are…..

I love this sentiment. I watched the crowd sway to the rhythm and the vibe in the theatre was electric as everyone joined in the uplifting chorus “you’re amazing (amazing)
just the way you are…..”

I read of a social experiment that consolidates the “be who you are” mantra.

In an attempt to achieve aesthetic ‘perfection’, four ordinary women (AKA non models) participated in a professional photo shoot. Their images, as is the norm for any professional set of photos, were then edited by a photoshop expert. The goal? To make these real women look like models. But what they found was that once they’d received the undivided attention of makeup artists, hair stylists, cameras and photoshoppers — there wasn’t much left of them

Take a look:

As I surveyed the audience at Bruno’s concert, the differences displayed by each person- sitting, standing, dancing and singing, it is so obvious that individualism is celebrated. Brunettes, blonds, red heads and bald were all there, tall, short, slim and not so slim, wheelchair user, Down’s Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, young and old. What is  ‘perfect’?

The sooner we appreciate ourselves as individuals with characteristics and charms all our own the better as we can spend less time seeking an untruth which we perceive to be perfection. What a waste of time running after this empty goal, think what could be achieved if we focused on the positive traits and skills that we actually possess, the strengths that are within us all.

We were sat in the wheelchair accessible section of the auditorium and our two rows were as eclectic, varied, exuberant and beautiful as anywhere in the stadium.  My point, challenging as it may seem to some, is that everyone is perfect  – just the way they are.

Sing it Bruno xxx

Gear Up Girl raises funds for TAD’s Disability Services

Sunday morning saw me race to Sydney Bridge –  I achieved an Olympic time for this short distance as I had set my alarm incorrectly…….. I was astonished when my waiting friends rang to enquire as to my whereabouts? “I’m at home” instantly awake and realizing I shouldn’t be in my PJs’ but in lycra! The quickest dress and largest leap on to my prepared bike got me to our prearranged start and we were off.

Gear up girl is Bicycle NSW’s female only cycle, it encourages all ability cyclist to get on their bikes. My group started from Sydney Bridge because rail track works closed the train station at Burwood so we made a decision to meet the ride at its intersection on the Princes Highway in Tempephoto (31) - CopyWe had a seamless ride, after my late arrival,  enjoying the waterfront cycleway around Botany Bay , across the Taren Point Bridge then on the cycleway over the wetlands beside Woolooware Bay to Crunulla. Our gang opted to elongate our ride an extra 20km to Kurnell , out along Captain Cook Drive, through Botany Bay National Park.

Bicycle NSW says “The gear up girl challenge is ALL about being active, feeling good about yourself and making a difference by leading an environmentally friendly lifestyle” Bicycle NSW is proud to support TAD Disability Services as the gear up girl charity for 2014.

TAD Disability Services is the only charity in NSW which designs and builds custom equipment to enable people with disabilities to lead more independent lives. At TAD ” We believe that every individual has the right to equal opportunities and affordable equipment

My girlfriends and I had a wonderful day, here’s what they said:

Gorgeous fun-filled friend fueled fab day”,

” We rode, we talked, we had coffee, we smiled”,

“Loved it”,

” Thanks for getting us geared up once again”,

” What a great day, great company, glorious weather and great coffee on the beach.

This event is well organised and I have to  stress how vitally important TAD’s assistance is to people with disabilities. The TAD’s workforce includes retired engineers who volunteer their skills.  The TAD team provides assessments free of charge and subsidizes the cost of Freedom Wheels Bikes to families who often face overwhelming financial hurdles.

Well done Bicycle NSW, well done girlfriends – we fund-raised for TAD’s to make a difference, to deliver adapted, custom-built pieces of equipment to facilitate a disabled person’s freedom!

For more information about TAD Disability Services please visit their  website or call 1300 663 243.   For more information on Gear Up Girl visit  www.gearupgirl.com.au

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Want a Happy Household? Make Everyday Caring Cookies to Maintain Calm!

I make these cookies using Bill Granger’s recipe from his Everyday cookbook (how appropriate!) These oatmeal and raisin cookies are so delicious and versatile – I bake a small quantity and pop the remaining uncooked dough into a Ziplock bag in the fridge so later in the week we can enjoy another small batch of fresh-baked cookies that are warm and fresh!

Oatmeal Raisin Cookies

150 g unsalted butter

225 g 1 cup soft brown sugar (I use slightly less sugar as I don’t have a sweet tooth)

1 egg, lightly beaten

2 teaspoons natural vanilla extract

125 g 1 cup plain flour (I use self-raising and cut the baking powder)

1 teaspoon baking powder

1 pinch of salt (I leave that out)

235 g 2 1/3 cups rolled oats (I am always generous with the oats and add slightly more)

125 g 1 cup raisins ( As alternatives I use chocolate chips but also use dried blueberries, dried cranberries or dried apricots according to your taste)

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Preheat oven to 180C 350 F Gas 4,  line baking tray

Cream butter and sugar together until fluffy and smooth. Add egg and vanilla extract, beat till smooth. Sift in flour, baking powder (if using) salt and mix lightly. Add oats and raisins and stir together.

Roll tablespoon of mixture into balls and place on tray. flatten the balls with a fork. Bake for 20 min if large fat cookies. Cook for 15 if you make smaller variety or until golden. Remove from oven and allow to cool before eating!

It is very easy to consume one too many of these delicious cookies which is another reason why I only cook 9 or 12 at one time, refrigerating the remaining dough for another fresh-baked batch later in the week. Portion control can be achieved without difficulty;  SCI immobility calls for attention to sweet snacks and treats. No one should have to abstain as good food feeds the body and soul, just don’t over indulge.

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